873. Ibur [Conception] – 2

Ibur Aleph [first conception] is done by the upper one, like a person who receives an awakening from above. Ibur Bet [second conception] means that the lower one must work by himself by the power of the awakening he had received. In other words, he must add, through the awakening he had received from the upper one, and work by his labor. Otherwise, he loses everything and returns to being a black dot, meaning that his spirituality is regarded as darkness that does not shine.

By this we can interpret, “His first wife is called upon him from above, ‘The daughter of so and so to so and so,’” meaning as said above, Ibur Aleph comes and calls on him from above, which is an awakening from above. “His second wife is according to his actions,” as said above, like the example of Ibur Bet, that it is by himself, meaning according to his actions.